As a woman in AA and knowing what I know about many women in AA I think most men would be well served to seek companionship elsewhere (JUST MY OPINION).
Sweetie let go of those resentments!
Perhaps you've had too many relationships with men, or possibly men and women in AA that didn't work out the way you wanted them to work out. But, there are many many many many fine men and women in AA!
As far as AA relationships, I'm not in a relationship (my dream man is being too hard to get
), but I have many many many friends that are couples and the men and the women are both in AA, and those relationships are better than anything I have every seen outside of AA. I have heard that in AA the divorce rate is much lower than for divorces outside of AA. (I don't know who keeps the numbers). I have heard that rates of domestic for couples who are both in AA is much lower than the average for couples not in AA. (My friend who works in the Womens Crisis Center told me this).
Perhaps it's your own self-trust issues or perhaps other reasons that will hopefully be revealed to you, why you would make such negative comments about women in AA. It's hard to believe that you are a women talking about other women like this. Hopefully when you get through your steps, or get to more meetings and meet more women it will get better for you.
Enjoy life to the max! You only get one chance to live this life, (I've been told), so live it like it's the only one you've got!!!
Kisses to you all.