Hi Keith, can go along with the fire and brimstone mother.
An excellent woman in every way except when it came to religion, its was her churches way or the highway!
Had a bad affect on me, i thought if i to died a saviour i'd go straight to heaven, never worked that way. All my rescuing just made me insane and drove me right to hell.
Glad i'm out of that now, no longer in competition with other martyrs, there is no prizes in life for hanging onto pain!