918gma wrote: Was I wrong, was there another way. What do you think
That's funny! I do that!
Here's how the game get's played:
1. I take an old "action"... something I did in the past (it's history).
2. I see someone do something and it reminds me of what I did (that's already history).
3. Then I start to think about it!!!
4. To add more fuel to it... I'll get others thinking about it... and talking to me about it...and it will get real exciting the bigger the fire gets!
Regardless of "what" I think about a past act... I will still be living in the past... when I'm thinking about it in the present.
I didn't understand it then... and I won't understand it now... all I'll do is be living in the past.... "thinking" about something that I cannot change. (Because it's in the past).
My "head" will tell me "well if you think about it now... it can change the way you feel about it
Then, I have to remind my head, that "If I don't think about it... I won't feel anything about it. It's gone. It's history."
So, how do I keep my head off of it? I have to think about the "now"... I have to keep my head on the "right now!"
And... how do I do that? I just take a "present action." A what?
Like this... right now... I'll click the submit button... get my butt out of this chair and go nuke a cup of coffee.... and pet my dog on the way to the kitchen.
Hugs to you.