I understand. It seems like the more meetings I go to -- the more opportunity that I have to see that stuff going on. (And, other stuff, too). More than a few times I "resigned from AA" over it. Then, after my nightly 10th Step, I'd be in a meeting the next day. Come to think of it, I can't remember now, when the last time I "resigned from AA".
Maybe, I'm not going to enough meetings. LOL.