I just found this web site this morning and what a blessing it has been all day.

I have been sober soon to be 20 years. I have great concerns for some one that can not talk about releationshp in AA meeting.
The most important thing I heard and agree with, is It all starts with dealing with #1 If we can't talk the talk and walk the walk No one will listen and we beat our own band. Before I went into treatment I had a period of 2 years without a drink. As we all know I was a dry drunk till I did the program right and started working with the realation with in. Thanks.