God provides worms for the birds... but, they won't know about it and won't find it... if they stay in the nest.
I used to know an unemployed sober alkie that would share in the meetings "I guess God has a job for me when I pick up and shake these classifieds and a job falls out of them!"
I don't know if a job ever fell out of the paper for him or not... and I don't know if he read the job ads and tried to apply for them... or... if he just shook the paper, maybe prayed, and waited for God to drop a job out of the paper for Him.
I wonder how many single people, that want a relationship in life... wait at home... waiting for God to send someone knocking on their door, to ask them "Hey! Are you available and do you want a relationship?"
I learned in advertising, many years ago... that if you think you have something good that might benefit yourself and others... you've got to tell the others about it! Then, make it available where they can find it!
Some people, like me... can't hear God's voice, like other people can hear it. So, some of us still depend upon stumbling into a good thing... or, we get out and let someone know what we want.
Good luck! Let us know what happens. Maybe, by sharing what you figure out... I can give it a try!
Dallas
so I dont go there now and concentrate on doing service and helping other alcoholics achieve sobriety. Some of us are not destined to be with anyone and maybe Im one of them.... 