shellydeann wrote:boyfriend has become self righteous
Reminds me of something I heard in a meeting once... "You spot it -- you got it!"
While the "spot it -- you got it" rule is only most of the time accurate... (there are times when it is not accurate)... when it's NOT accurate... we still have to have "experienced it in our own past" to be able to recognize it.
In relationships -- it's easy to forget that "our main priority is taking care of ourselves -- and taking our own right actions" instead of being so concerned with taking care of someone else and their actions.
When we get sick & tired enough -- of the sick & tired past & the present -- we change. Until then... we try to enjoy it!