lotusinbloom wrote:however, although I get the vibe from him that he's become this "holier than thou" person. Sometimes he questions my motives, etc. and it's like he is judging me...perhaps this is just my perception.
In some peoples cases (and maybe NOT yours) ... it's more than just their perception... because it really IS happening. And, some (not all) Al-Anon's have a history of trying to work their own program & their spouse's program for the spouse! (Trying to fix 'em!)
Some... even seem to think that working their spouses program IS part of their program!
No damage here intended!
And, AA's have been known to do it w/ other AA's, too! So, it's not just an Al-Anon, thing.