Welcome to the forum, Lynda! Happy to have you with us and I look forward to hearing much more from you!
Step 4. Oh what an order! LOL. I understand.
It was so hard for me -- that I decided that after I got down with it -- I was going to spend a lot of time helping others with Step 4. And, that's what I did.
Here is a link to some information, here on the site, that will make Step 4 really simple and easy for you -- and the instructions come right out of the Big Book. It's just some worksheets, that serve as a "map" to the information in the Big Book, so that it makes it really simple.http://www.step12.com/step-4.html
Best wishes with it! And, if you have any questions with the info -- you can find me right here.
I might have fixed it.
I'll also send you a private message with it, to see if the link will work there.