I find most the unwanted things that happen seem to be a culmination of things I created.
Knowing better that while I am doing them I am creating a situation that can lead to something I really don't want.
For instance we tend to join in on bashing other peoples faults, and venting when someone else places roadblocks in our path to goals we wish to achieve.
How many times have you told someone that "I wish that so and so would just keep their nose out of my business" or something to that effect?
Sure we all do these type things. Subconsciously many times.
Then later on we find out that there was a reason they stuck it in.
We all do these type things as it is human nature.
On the flip side I find I am accomplishing things I wanted to achieve and out of the blue I feel really good about myself when it is done.
Whether anyone else noted it or not didn't seem to matter.
Or I stated something to someone that later on made a difference to them in such a way that they later on thanked me for saying it. Even if I was totally unaware of the impact I had.
Those kind of things is what I am talking about.
No I think we set ourselves up for these type things.
Our Higher Power nudges us and we resist at times.
But sometimes we don't.
The thing to learn is how to recognize those times.
Tough to do!
Or is it?
I got no tricks in bag.