I may be new to this, although I do know one thing about kids. just as the old saying goes, the older they get the smarter you get. I have a grown daughter that hated me at one point in her life, although as she gets older the more she seems to need me. As far as moving goes, freedom is great! You eat what you want, when you want. You watch what you want, and you don't have to tell anyone where you going, and absolutely nobody puts you down for going to meetings, or resents you for doing so.
Everyday since I regained my freedom I wake up and it's 10 times better than it was the day before. I don't have all that negative energy clouding my judgement, and I'm not getting all tripped up in other people's drama and insanity.
The absolutely best thing about freedom is you don't have to get dressed if you don't want to
Concentrate on all the positive things you will be gaining from the move, and have a great day!