LOL - the first time I heard that -- "would you rather be happy, or would you rather be right?" I said "RIGHT, damn it!!" and I meant it. Thankfully that too passed.
With my dad back in my life on a daily basis, I've been really turning toward those spot-check inventories. Don't always like what I see, but it's all good stuff in the long run as I learn and grow. There are no shortage of lessons in this for me, if I choose to embrace them!