How do you force yourself to make a decision you know you have to make but are too scared to make it?
It's so simple how "It Works" and sometimes I used to have a tendency to complicate it. Now, I keep it real simple and let the Program of Alcoholics Anonymous work me -- instead of me trying to work it.
How do I do that? I simply take the actions. The 12 Steps and apply those principles in all my affairs. By doing that, the 12 Steps work me over!!!
I do have a lot of experience in being alone though. It has its advantages and diadvantages. But I can also tell you that bad isn't better than none. Once you let go and grieve and put the relationship behind you. The relief from the guilt of living a lie and the strain of being with some one you really don't want to be with is tremendous.
thinks I am now addicted to AA and that I'm being brainwashed LOL
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