Congratulations on 90 days. I am just 9 months ahead of you and remember well where I was at 90 days. It is awesome that you have a sponsor. I didn't start going to meetings until I was almost 60 days sober and asked someone to sponsor me somewhere around 90 days. I was scared to death to ask her but knew that I wanted to get well. At first, I, too, felt that she might not have time for me because she sponsored so many other women. One thing that I knew even then was that she was not supposed to be my friend, she was supposed to be my sponsor. If friendship came, all the better, but it wasn't a requirement. I wanted someone who would take me through the steps and call me on my crap. She definitely did that and I got the added blessing of her friendship.
I also rely on other women for guidance and counsel. Dallas' advise to pause, pray and meditate is key. God puts the people in our lives that we need and does for us what we cannot do for ourselves.