It's been my experience that I learn about tolerance when I hear
others being intolerant, I learn about humility from the arrogant, I
learn about gratitude from listening to the ungrateful, I learn about
sharing the solution when I hear others wallowing in the problem. TO
ME I sound so healthy until I realize that I am learning these things
because I am seeing my character defects and shortcomings reflected
in others . . .
... sometimes quickly, sometimes slowly!