Trinity, Spazz, nice your both here, wecome! and of course Angel and Jr, a wonderfull good evening to you also. as far as sponsership. ya might go hunting in the archives of this site. somewhere i posted a bit about it. it might have been lost when the site went down. sponsership, like recovery comes in many forms. the do as little as possible, the just dont drink, go to meets, the one step a year, the all the step in first year. the dont call unless ya gunna drink., oh, yes, my fave. lets be friends. all i can tell you, is what worked for me. i reached out, asked for help, came in the rooms, got a sponser....sponsership is like the family tree. carry the message that was handed down, from the sponser, the grandsponser, the great great grand sponser and on. yes, it can get watered down a bit. in Fairfield County, we are lucky. in my town, we have one of, if not the first group that came from the city, NY City. old school AA. the tables afly'n, the fists a fly'n, the sit down, shutup, put the cotton in your mouth type. Disipline, that helps keep a high bottom drunk away from a drink. i went to that kind, and stil do at times, and i'm almost three years clean, sober, and rid'n on that Pink Cloud. my wekend home group ### The Panal of #### is kinda in the middle of hard ass, and willy-nilly! my point, there is no one way.... now i have sponsered, a few people. the site faves, are The Slipper, The Sneaker, and The Loafer. all of them say, i want what you have! i ask, are ya willing? i ask of them, what was asked of me, the sugestions. go to a meets, everyday ### try a 90x90 #### call me ### get in the habbit, in case ya want a drink, or nerved #### talk'n helps take the mind off a drink. ...hit the knees, morn, and night. pray, and pray rightly. in the morn, gratefull, and at night gratitude, that ya made it one more day. ... call another drunk ### helps get over that shy, unique, fearfullness of the alky. and reaching out to another. freely #### read, read, read. The Big Book ### Hi Dallas
#### the 12 & 12, learn what the steps are all about. the new design for living, or how to not get pissed off, angry, and nerved up.
well that s the five sugestions my sponser gave me! ... ohoh, one more thing that worked for me, and i ask of my sponsee. put Rule#62 in to use everyday, if ya can. " Dont take yourself too Damm Serious" or, by, by self, it's all about me, the self-centered alk'y! ... almost forgot, i had a sponsee ### The Intellect #### one day he called, said thanks for all your help, but i leav'n the rooms! he ask me if i wanna know why? of course i say. ready for this one gang. he say, " I Wanna Drink" imangine that???, i say i shure i see you again. sun. night at Anny Night! yep, he there!!! ... the slipper, he mov'n in with me next week, and the loafer, just got a year!!! Bravo Loafer. did anyone of these people follow my sug. some, not all, some made it , some not, i learned not to take anyone of my sponsee's persional. i did learn this the hard way ### Renting Space in My Head, and no pay'a da rent
#### i hope some of what i just shared may be of some use, if not, hand then a $20 Bill, and say, why not go buy yourself a couple 'O'drink's... good wishes, xo The Zip