A sober date....hmmm....I remember going out with a guy...ONCE...and we just met for dinner...I had no need nor the desire to drink. I met him there, thank goodness. I sit down, and we start talking. I was immediately trying to find a way to leave, without being rude. He seemed so great when I had talked to him a couple days before...Well, I decided I needed a drink if I was going to spend any time with this guy. I was still trying to think of how to nicely get out. I was halfway through my drink...and he purposed! No joke. I mean I realize im awesome and all, but that was a little crazy.
He proceeded to tell me he was serious and so on and so on...I decided polite was not necessary...I got up and left!
Turns out he was drunk. He called the next day and left a message for me. He said he was drunk. I honestly couldnt tell. I decided at that point, I didnt want to be dating anyone that drank. I was still in the mindset that I could though.
Now...I am looking forward to sober dates. Any takers?
I think some kind of section specifically for developing a close friendship or dating...where you go into it with that intention. That way you know what the others intentions are. You wouldnt want to be just talking with someone and not know how to interpret what they are saying...are they being nice just because...or are they being nice cause im special? I think a specific area for that would be great. It takes the wonder out of things. You know what intentions are then!!!
Just my 2 cents. After you read all that I may actually owe you money!